She Speaks Her Mind...

Wednesday, January 10, 2007

Sometimes you just cant have the best of everything..

Once you have something..you're bound to lose the other..

Fortunately i have more gains than losses..

I have the most important support from my families, friends and my darl..

but i lost that little respect i felt i should deserve..

i realise as people grow up and go through that different stages in life..everything evolves around them starts to get more complicated..

During the primary and secondary school days, you study for the sake of having to complete the levels..
As you go to the levels of JCs, Polys and Uni, you study probably for the sake of having a better future for yourself..

When you were a teenager, you date just because you felt you love that person..
But as you grow older, you fell in love and realise things were not as simple as you thought..
Many things were involved; Like working hard together and planning for our better future; Considering the families of both sides; Trying to accept each other's lifestyle in order to live better together in future..

In this world, there are many types of people..different people lives differently, talks differently and behaves differently..

You may have the best way of living your life but doesn't mean others are living the wrong way..

You have have the best education since young but doesn't mean others are recieving the wrong education..

You felt you treasure your loves one, doesn't mean that others dont treasure what they have..

Different people expresses differently, different families communicates differently..Everyone has their own lifestyle..
Although some may need more guidance in the way of living in this world..

Still, try to accept it, respect them, dont compare nor criticise..

Daddy once told me that dont take it to heart to what others think of me..
As long they didn't point or said it in front of me, doesn't mean they dislike me..
Just be yourself, if you didn't do anything wrong, you dont have to be afraid of what they think..

I agreed with him...and i believe time will definitely heal everything..

As time goes by..people may tend to forget what they said..
People may learn to forgive..or perhaps come to realise..

That's when i felt i gain back my losses..

She Wrote What She Felt At
Wednesday, January 10, 2007

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