She Speaks Her Mind...

Thursday, June 29, 2006

i'm so pissed with my man la! why is it that he just never admit his mistakes?

MEN! their pride and ego! so important to them? they'll never admit they're at fault and never try to accept what women said..they want face..they cant lose!

my man is always pointing out my flaws when he never realise he has them too!

he loves to say i'm always assuming stuffs but little did he know he's doing this all the time~

he wanted me to see things open-mindedly but y isn't he doing so? show me a good example b4 u ever want to lecture me! y the hell are u still sticking to your pride and thinking that MEN are like that! they just couldn't accept WOMEN's thinking..

but hey~there're exceptional case? if not why the hell did god created MEN and WOMEN, and make them fall in love for? to learn to accept each other..to give and take....or rather compromise~that's his purpose!

n this..depends on the individuals! it doesn't mean that ALL MEN must stick to their pride and rights~that man himself can decide whether he wants to listen and accept open-mindedly to what his girlfriend (someone he loves and gonna spend the rest of his life with) said!its up to him~ he doesnt need to follow the trend!

its a lesson that MEN has to learn! i may be lack of knowledge of wad's happening ard the world..in the society..so i'm learning and improving! so why cant he? cos he's lack of knowledge in a r'ship! he didn't feel there's anything to learn..

that's simply becos he's too ego! he expects his ger to accept whatever he said!

no point being together when one side doesn't want to compromise~if that's the case y not God just create Gays and Lesbians? cos they understand each other better..isn't it?

WOMEN may judge things emotionally but that doesn't mean its always wrong! the problem lies in the MEN..they doesn't want to listen..becos they judge things logically or practically..which is not totally right all the time!

you told me some things are not worth arguing or dont need to argue..but why are you talking back still? isn't it better if u juz keep quiet and listen to my blabbling since u think i'm e immature one?

what Raine said was right too! why is it always arguements and not communications? cos they simply juz dont listen! they always think they're right~

all this shit started from that Leona and my muffin issue..it juz clash on the same day that Leona needs to meet him n i'm baking muffin too..

i haven even make a fuss over him meeting that HK ger..one of his bunch of my most-hated HK ger frens..instead, i allow him to go..but the main problem in him is..he doesn't know how to prioritise! isn't ur gf more important than meeting your friends?

i'm not being demanding but if you're sian bout meeting this ger den dont meet! juz tell her u're not free..moreover u've promised your ger that u gonna help her with the muffins!

why give yourself so much stress to meet her up and after that put the blame on me that i'm the one making you stress..becos u were afraid
i'll be unhappy that u're meeting her?? i'm unhappy at the way u manage ur time~how u gonna meet her within 1hr juz to get the 'stuffs' from her and rush back for me??
you think u can do it?
and why is it a must to get those 'stuffs'? its smthg she gt for u! not u asking her to buy! n moreover u'll be seeing her during albert's ROM isn't it?? cant she pass to u on that day?

you were unhappy with my replies..becos u expected me to tell u what to do instead of asking u what u planning to do..if that's the case..i would've ask u not to meet her cos u already had promise me to bake muffins together! will u be happy with that reply of mine?

NO! to simplify it..you just want me to say what you wan to hear! admit it! stop denying!

after everything..still.....nth good comes out~u concluded that......i shld mix ard with ur sis more than my friends..cos i expressed myself so much better..haha..yeah..u're right! she taught me alot..but what's ur point?!

how bout u? u still think u're on e right track? n there's nth u ought to learn or change?

u're a gone case typical MEN living in the past..

i dont know if giving in was right. my colleague Jecy always tell me...its better for girls to act stupid...is it true? i start to think so...

i'm like....accepting fate..which is stupid! but if he's stubborn..what to do?

its not bout leaving him..n find a better one..
doesn't mean the next one will be so much better..n he's not that bad till i cant tolerate him..he just need to learn to listen and try to judge at different points of view..instead of just saying whatever's in his freaking mind!

i know i may hav offended alot MEN now..but guys....think about it...how often do you guys realli listen to your girlfriend or Girl-friend's opinion? most of you still have the mindset that MEN r the decision maker and WOMEN are the ones sitting back and listen..

NO lor! we WOMEN wants to be heard as well..to be recognised..

in the end he's the one contradicting himself..telling me i muz be determine to achieve success in everything i do..bla bla bla..wala wala wala..but yet he doesn't allow me to have a stand at times?what the hell is wrong with him?

conclusion is : accept it la WOMEN! this is MEN! they're suffocating us man...

i freaking had enough~!

She Wrote What She Felt At
Thursday, June 29, 2006

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